There comes a time when we must decide if want to grow up, take responsibility for our own lives, and step into the life we desire.  If you want a different life, there are some basic tools that will allow you to change your life.

  • Decide you want to change.
  • Commit to doing whatever it takes to change your life.
  • Be real about where you are at and where you want to be.

Increasingly in life there are more and more people not only who have had multiple partners with sometimes disastrous results – major costs in emotional, physical and/or financial terms, but also people who have reached the age of 25, 30, even 40 and older who have never had a significant relationship.  And yet, when asked they say they would love to meet someone!!!  Well if they haven’t, there is a reason.

Commitment and being real seem to have fallen from popularity a decade or three ago.  Yet, if you want to meet someone and be taken seriously as the right partner, commitment and being real are required.  Even if you commit to something else in the meantime, for example another goal in either your personal or professional life, that commitment lets the universe know that you are growing up and perhaps open to a relationship.  Whatever your belief system is, from the established religions to the more recent trend of ‘spiritual’ beliefs, science to the ‘Law of Attraction’, there is a universal law that will allow your life to manifest what you focus on.  So if you are positive and specific, and build your belief that this is possible through daily repetition, results can be dramatic.

Often it seems, when you are ready to cope with the responsibility of the blessing, the blessing arrives!  It is written ‘To whom much is given, much is expected.’  Alternatively, we know that blessings can be taken away.  For example, if you have a wonderful partner, then take them for granted, eventually there will be a major breakdown in the relationship.

So how can you walk out that commitment?

Where are you now?  Are you a couch potato, content to sit at home on your computer then wonder why you never meet anyone?  If you are, then it is time to go out and meet people.  This could be as simple, as sitting in a coffee shop while you are online.  Then take time to look around you and smile.  Make yourself open to others.

Are you overweight or have skin problems that could be largely sorted with a small change in your diet and some regular exercise?  If you want to attract someone and be respected and desired, perhaps it’s time to respect yourself and your body and make yourself desirable.  Buy yourself some nice clothes, make an effort even if you are just going out to the local shop.  If nothing else, you will feel better about yourself.

As a wise man once said, “You can live above the line or below the line.”

Ownership

Responsibility

Accountability

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Blame

Excuses

Denial

It is your choice!  Choose today to live the life you dream of!

Your thoughts?